I am not able to start a dedicated server. It says up and running but does not show in list and can't connect via IP. I have all ports forwarded to that computer but it isn't getting through. The only way that I can get a server going and up is by going through the main game, choosing co-op and joining it. Then I have to join through my friends (other account) server. If I start that exact same server but don't join with alternate account, I won't be able to join it with any other. Friends can't join either unless the hosting alt account is in the game. This used to be simple but something that changed. Please assist.